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“You can't blame her,' said Amit. 'After a life so full of tragedy anyone would become hard.' 'What tragedy?' asked Mrs. Chatterji. 'Well, when she was four,' said Amit, 'her mother slapped her--it was quite traumatic--and then things went on in that vein. When she was twelve she came in second in an exam...It hardens you.”

Quote by Vikram Seth

Work

A Suitable Boy

A Suitable Boy is an extensive novel that delves into the lives of a large cast of characters, focusing on the search for a suitable bride for the protagonist, Lata. The narrative spans several years and encompasses the political and social transformations occurring in India during this period. The novel is renowned for its richly detailed portrayal of Indian culture and its exploration of complex themes such as arranged marriage, class divisions, and the struggle for independence. more

Author

Vikram Seth
Vikram Seth

Vikram Seth is an Indian-British author renowned for his poetry and novels. Born on June 20, 1952, he graduated from Oxford University, where he began his literary career. His works often explore complex human relationships and profound social themes. more

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