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“We are uncomfortable because everything in our life keeps changing -- our inner moods, our bodies, our work, the people we love, the world we live in. We can't hold on to anything -- a beautiful sunset, a sweet taste, an intimate moment with a lover, our very existence as the body/mind we call self -- because all things come and go. Lacking any permanent satisfaction, we continuously need another injection of fuel, stimulation, reassurance from loved ones, medicine, exercise, and meditation. We are continually driven to become something more, to experience something else.”

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Radical Acceptance: Awakening the Love that Heals Fear and Shame

This book explores the concept of radical acceptance, offering strategies for cultivating unconditional love and healing internalized fears and shame. It delves into the psychological and emotional aspects of self-acceptance, aiming to empower readers to overcome personal challenges and foster healthier relationships. more

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Tara Brach
Tara Brach

Tara Brach is an American psychologist born on May 17, 1953. She is renowned for her contributions to mindfulness meditation and psychotherapy, particularly in the areas of stress management and emotional regulation. Dr. Brach's work emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and inner wisdom. more

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