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“When dreaded outcomes are actually imminent we don't worry about themwe take action. Seeing lava from the local volcano make its way down the street toward our house does not cause worry it causes running. Also we don't usually choose imminent events as subjects for our worrying and thus emerges an ironic truth: Often the very fact that you are worrying about something means that it isn't likely to happen.”

Quote by Gavin de Becker

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Protecting the Gift: Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane)

This book offers practical advice and strategies for parents to ensure the safety and mental health of their children and teenagers. more

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Gavin de Becker
Gavin de Becker

Gavin de Becker is a renowned author and security expert, known for his work on personal and public safety, as well as psychological tactics. His books, 'The Gift of Fear' and 'Fearless', have gained widespread popularity around the world and have been translated into multiple languages. more

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