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“But, Jocelyn, if I really were all those things [good, kind, talented, hard working, open to change, and adorable]... ...I would die.' I wasn't sure what I meant by this, but it suddenly struck me as the truth. 'Because you'd rather die than feel anger at your mother for not giving you what you needed?”

Quote by Alison Bechdel

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Are You My Mother?: A Comic Drama

This book is a humorous and poignant exploration of themes such as identity and family dynamics. The story is narrated in a comic style, offering readers a unique perspective on these complex issues. more

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Alison Bechdel
Alison Bechdel

Alison Bechdel is an American cartoonist known for her comic strip 'Bechdel Test'. Her work is celebrated for its emotional depth and humor, exploring themes such as gender, family, and identity. more

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