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“One of the ‘faults’, which Albert attempted to cure her of, and failed, was the Queen’s inability to live in the present. When she was happy, she fended off the future by anticipating it; and dealt with change when it came by dwelling on the past. The band under her window would wake her with a hymn – ‘Now thank we all our God’, or Psalm 100 – while Albert wished her joy so tenderly, so merrily, so lovingly, that she confessed humbly: ‘Often I feel surprised at being so loved, and tremble at my great happiness, dreading that I may be too happy.”

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Book:Victoria and Albert: A Family Life at Osborne House
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Sarah Ferguson is a British writer born on October 15, 1959. Her works span a variety of genres, including novels, biographies, and children's literature. Ferguson is known for her unique narrative style and in-depth character development. more

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