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“Maybe the mother manages to be a mirror only part of the time. In such 'tantalizing' cases, some babies learn to withdraw their own needs when the mother's are evident.”

Quote by Alison Bechdel

Book:Are You My Mother?: A Comic Drama

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Are You My Mother?: A Comic Drama

This book is a humorous and poignant exploration of themes such as identity and family dynamics. The story is narrated in a comic style, offering readers a unique perspective on these complex issues. more

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Alison Bechdel is an American cartoonist known for her comic strip 'Bechdel Test'. Her work is celebrated for its emotional depth and humor, exploring themes such as gender, family, and identity. more

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