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“There are too many over-fed, under-motivated Christians hiding behind the excuse that God has not spoken to them. They are waiting to hear voices or see dreams - all the while living to make money, to provide for their future, to dress well and have fun.”

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Floyd McClung

Floyd McClung is an American author born on August 3, 1945. His works primarily focus on historical, religious, and cultural themes, which have been well-received by readers. more

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