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“As parents it is well to be aware of the tendency to equate energetic activity with contest. Our children's worth does not dependon their ability to trounce one another. And surely we can find ways of frolicking and being healthy and active together in some joyful, free way that is not an adversary relationship.”

Quote by Polly Berrien Berends

Book:Whole child, whole parent

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Whole child, whole parent

This book explores the interconnectedness of a child's well-being and a parent's role in that process, offering insights and strategies for holistic parenting. more

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Polly Berrien Berends

Polly Berrien Berends is an unknown scholar, born on December 1, 1939. Her life and achievements have not been well documented. more

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