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Messy: The Power of Disorder to Transform Our Lives

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Tim Harford
Tim Harford

Tim Harford is a British economist known for his writings on economics, decision-making, and complexity. His work is characterized by its ability to explain complex economic concepts in an accessible way and emphasize the role of uncertainty in decision-making processes. more

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“In other words, personality disorders are ego-syntonic, which means the behaviors seem in sync with the person’s self-concept; as a result, people with these disorders believe that others are creating the problems in their lives. Mood disorders, on the other hand, are egodystonic, which means the people suffering from them find them distressing. They don’t like being depressed or anxious or needing to flick the lights on and off ten times before leaving the house. They know something’s off with them.”

“We can dedicate ourselves to staying connected to supportive people who will receive us without expectations or judgments. In that process, we will internalize them as they nurture our wounded ones. They will then join and foster those parts of ourselves who can be present with the ones who come to us in their suffering and recovery.”

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