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“We all have our scars. That's what falling is love is all about: revealing your scars to somebody who then loves you anyway.”

Quote by Dan Savage

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Dan Savage
Dan Savage

Dan Savage is an influential American author, sex advisor, and activist, born on October 7, 1964. He is known for his 'Savage Love' column, which has been published in 'The Stranger' magazine since 1991, providing practical sex advice. Savage is admired for his candid and humorous style, and his work has had a profound impact on sex education and LGBTQ+ rights. more

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