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“Throughout the entire history of humanity, the tool that people use most to feel happy is this: Deceiving oneself! Mankind has often preferred the false happiness that he can easily obtain by deceiving himself, to the real happiness that he can only achieve with great efforts by not deceiving himself!”

Quote by Mehmet Murat Ildan

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Mehmet Murat Ildan
Mehmet Murat Ildan

Mehmet Murat Ildan is a renowned Turkish writer born on May 16, 1965. His works span various literary forms including novels, essays, and poetry, and have gained widespread popularity among readers. more

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