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“THE POWER OF THE GROUP We all want to feel a sense of belonging. This isn’t a character flaw. It’s fundamental to the human experience. Our finest achievements are possible when people come together to work for a common cause. School spirit, the rightful pride we feel in our community, our heritage, our religion, and our families, all come from the value we place on belonging to a group.”

Quote by Rosalind Wiseman

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Masterminds and Wingmen: Helping Our Boys Cope with Schoolyard Power, Locker-Room Tests, Girlfriends, and the New Rules of Boy World

Written by a renowned expert, the book delves into the challenges boys face in school and beyond, providing insights and practical advice for fostering their emotional and social development. more

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Rosalind Wiseman
Rosalind Wiseman

Rosalind Wiseman is a renowned educator, born in 1969. She is known for her research and writings on adolescent behavior and school culture. Wiseman's work delves into the dynamics of teen social interactions, bullying, and how to foster a positive learning environment in schools. more

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