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“You and I can profit by asking ourselves: What do I see when I look through the lens of my attitude toward myself? Am I more a critic than a friend? Do I look beyond the surface blemishes to find the truly beautiful and unique person that I am? Or do I play the destructive "comparison game"? What verdict does the juror of my mind pass on me: "good at heart" or "guilty on all counts"?”

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John Powell
John Powell

John Powell, born in 1925 in the United Kingdom, was a renowned priest. He had a profound religious background and dedicated himself to spreading Christian teachings, providing spiritual guidance to countless believers during his lifetime. more

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