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“Quando leggiamo Cenerentola (e tutte le altre) è utile ricordare che non stiamo guardando le donne come sono, ma come gli uomini di cultura patriarcale le hanno immaginate e forse, in fondo, ancora le immaginano. Le donne di queste fiabe consumano le proprie vite senza orizzonte: lo scenario in cui si muovono è spesso rappresentato dalle quattro mura di un'abitazione. Non le vedremo mai vivere avventure, compiere missioni all'esterno, avere grandi aspirazioni o mirare a compiti sociali: il loro scopo è uscire dalla casa del padre per ri-accasarsi in quella del marito. Se sono sfortunate svolgono le faccende domestiche, se invece sono fortunate sposano un uomo che possa far sgobbare qualcun'altra al posto loro.”

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God Save the Queer: Catechismo femminista

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