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Your Blue Is Not My Blue: A Missing Person Memoir

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“Reading his autobiography many years later, I was astonished to find that Edward since boyhood had—not unlike Isaiah Berlin—often felt himself ungainly and ill-favored and awkward in bearing. He had always seemed to me quite the reverse: a touch dandyish perhaps but—as the saying goes—perfectly secure in his masculinity. On one occasion, after lunch in Georgetown, he took me with him to a renowned local tobacconist and asked to do something I had never witnessed before: 'try on' a pipe. In case you ever wish to do this, here is the form: a solemn assistant produces a plastic envelope and fits it over the amber or ivory mouthpiece. You then clamp your teeth down to feel if the 'fit' and weight are easy to your jaw. If not, then repeat with various stems until your browsing is complete. In those days I could have inhaled ten cigarettes and drunk three Tanqueray martinis in the time spent on such flaneur flippancy, but I admired the commitment to smoking nonetheless. Taking coffee with him once in a shopping mall in Stanford, I saw him suddenly register something over my shoulder. It was a ladies' dress shop. He excused himself and dashed in, to emerge soon after with some fashionable and costly looking bags. 'Mariam,' he said as if by way of explanation, 'has never worn anything that I have not bought for her.' On another occasion in Manhattan, after acting as a magnificent, encyclopedic guide around the gorgeous Andalusia (Al-Andalus) exhibition at the Museum of Modern Art, he was giving lunch to Carol and to me when she noticed that her purse had been lost or stolen. At once, he was at her service, not only suggesting shops in the vicinity where a replacement might be found, but also offering to be her guide and advisor until she had selected a suitable new sac à main. I could no more have proposed myself for such an expedition than suggested myself as a cosmonaut, so what this says about my own heterosexual confidence I leave to others.”

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Book:Hitch 22: A Memoir
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“Walking on the Earth is a miracle! Each mindful step reveals the wondrous dharmakaya. This poem can be recited right as we get out of bed and our feet touch the floor. It can also be used during walking meditation or any time we stand up and walk. Dharmakaya literally means the “body” (kaya) of the Buddha’s teachings (dharma), the way of understanding and love. Before passing away, the Buddha told his disciples, “Only my physical body will pass away. My dharma body will remain with you forever.” In Zen, the word has come to mean “the essence of all that exists.”

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Author:Thich Nhat Hanh
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“Al gestionar una pataleta debemos ubicarnos a la misma altura de nuestro peque y mirarlo a los ojos para una mejor conexión y para no connotar superioridad. «Ubicarnos a su nivel» no se limita lo físico, sino que incluye el plano emocional, encontrándonos corazón con corazón. Una vez que ya estamos a su altura miremos un segundo hacia arriba y tratemos de sentir lo que la criatura siente. Aprovechemos para conectar con nuestra niña/o interior, temerosa/o ante los gritos de sus padres y abracemos la experiencia para sanarnos un poco. Seamos con ellos como nos hubiera gustado que sean con nosotros y cuando los abracemos, abracémonos a nosotros mismos cuando éramos criaturas, cuando nos sentimos temerosos, solos o asustados ante los desajustes emocionales de nuestros padres”

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Book:La Crianza Rebelde: Educar desde el respeto, la consciencia y la empatía
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“El Soneto de La Madre Soltera En nuestro mundo el mayor, Superpotencia es una madre soltera. Más valiente que los líderes mundiales, Es el corazón de una madre soltera. ¿Quieres construir una nación civilizada? ¿Quieres construir una sociedad civilizada? Pasar unos meses como estudiante, Sirviendo a los pies de una madre soltera. ¿Quieres la paz mundial y el progreso? Deja que las madres solteras dirigir el mundo. Apoya a ellas con valentía, con compromiso, Y verás el surgimiento de un nuevo mundo. Una mamá empoderada es una sociedad empoderada. Una madre soltera empoderada es la creación empoderada.”

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Book:High Voltage Habib: Gospel of Undoctrination
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