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“If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst.”

Quote by Esther Vilar

Book:The Manipulated Man
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The Manipulated Man

This novel delves into the psychological intricacies of human interaction, focusing on the ways in which individuals can be manipulated and controlled within their personal and professional lives. more

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Esther Vilar
Esther Vilar

Esther Vilar, born on September 16, 1935, is a renowned writer. Her works mainly discuss gender, social structures, and political issues, known for their unique perspective and profound insights. more

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