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“Often a child's very gifts (his great intensity of feeling, depth of experience, curiosity, intelligence, quickness-and his ability to be critical) will confront his parents with conflicts that they have long sought to keep at bay by means of rules and regulations. These regulations must then be rescued at the cost of the child's development. All of this can lead to an apparently paradoxical situation when parents are proud of their gifted child and who admire him are forced by their own repression to reject, suppress, or even destroy what is best, because truest, in that child.”

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Book:The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self
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The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

This book delves into the complexities of the psychological development of gifted individuals, examining the unique challenges they encounter as they strive to discover and express their true selves. more

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