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“There are those from religious backgrounds who resist and oppose LGBT equality; some very obsessively and publicly. They make bold accusations and negative statements about gay and lesbian people, their supposed "lifestyle" and relationships. But when a son, daughter, brother, sister or close friend comes out it is no longer an "issue" it becomes a person. They realise everything they'd said was painfully targeted at someone they love. Then......everything changes.”

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Book:A Life of Unlearning - one man's journey to find the truth
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Anthony Venn-Brown
Anthony Venn-Brown

Anthony Venn-Brown is an Australian advocate active in the fields of religion and human rights. Born on March 13, 1951, the details of his career and biography are limited at this time. more

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