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“Najbolj ženski problem je, da si ne odmeriš dovolj prostora ali časa ali pa ti tega ne dovolijo. Strpamo se v trenutke, ki si jih dopustimo, ali v trenutke, ki so nam jih dopustili drugi. Ne pretegujemo se ležerno v času, ampak si skopo odkazujemo najmanjše odmerke časa, v katerih naj bivamo. Pustimo, da vsi tiščijo v nas. Same do sebe skoparimo s prostorom in časom.”

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Sheila Heti
Sheila Heti

Sheila Heti is a Canadian writer born on December 25, 1976. Her works are known for their unique narrative style and profound self-reflection. more

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