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“Can she help it if the unconscious is a sewer?”

Book:The Argonauts

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The Argonauts

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Maggie Nelson

Maggie Nelson (b. 1973) is an American poet, essayist, and critic known for her genre-defying works that blend poetry, memoir, theory, and criticism. Her writing explores themes of gender, violence, family, and art. Her acclaimed book 'The Argonauts' won the 2016 National Book Critics Circle Award and became a landmark in queer theory and autobiographical writing. Nelson's unique style combines first-person narrative with philosophical inquiry, challenging traditional literary categories. She has taught at the California Institute of the Arts and the University of Southern California, and currently lives in Los Angeles. more

“Those who lack the ability to build relationships based on genuine human values and the strength of their own character often try to buy relationships by offering expensive gifts — even at the very beginning, when both people barely know each other. This is a clear red flag for a dignified girl or woman, prompting her to ask: Why is he giving such an expensive gift so early, before the relationship has even begun? Is he trying to buy my affection? or trying to impress by money. Why offer luxury before love, and expensive gifts before trust? Genuine relationships are built on values, respect, and character — not on material offerings. When someone gives an expensive gift too early, before there’s emotional depth or understanding, it often reflects not generosity, but insecurity or a subtle form of manipulation tactic.”

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Book:"Zaki's Gift Of Love"

Source: "Zaki's Gift Of Love"

“The psychoanalytic method, in its originary moment, works not with keys but with screwdrivers. It dismantles locks, rather than opening them. Only thus, by breaking and entering, does it attempt to get at the terrible and laughable treasure of unconscious signifiers.”

Method Psychoanalysis The Unconscious

Author:Jean Laplanche

“I første del af analysen havde jeg erobret min krops sundhed og frihed. Nu skulle jeg, langsomt, i gang med at opdage min person. Det gik meget trægt i begyndelsen, for jeg var på vagt over for mig selv. Jeg frygtede at møde et menneske, hvis mangler og lyder, jeg ikke ville være i stand til at rumme. Jeg måtte foretage utallige togter ned i underbevidstheden for at blive overbevist om, at der var vildt og frit, men blottet for ondskab. Der var både godt og ondt i min bevidsthed, så var det op til mig at smede dem som det passede mig. Behandlingen var forbi, da jeg følte mig i stand til at påtage mig ansvar for mine tanker og handlinger, hvordan de end var.”

Responsibility Choice Good And Bad The Unconscious

Book:The Words to Say It

Source: The Words to Say It

“Is it possible to be out of balance with too much goodness? The short answer is ’yes.’ The prequel trilogy outlines just such a condition where the Jedi Order finds itself in the smugness of complacency as the Dark Side is active right under their noses. The Jedi are living so much in the light of morality, that the shadow of unconscious desire, symbolized by the Sith, takes on a life of its own and, like an unsupervised child, becomes delinquent. If one is out of touch with the shadow side of one’s nature—one’s Dark Side—it become pathological, like feeling lust or greed and living in denial or otherwise becomes unconscious, such that it only magnifies itself in the repressed unconsciousness.”