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“Then it's over, and one of you gets up to go to the bathroom and pulls on their underwear, and you can feel the horrible slide back into the world, into language and clocks and calendars, into who you are pretending to be and who they are pretending to be, and it's lost, it's gone.”

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Book:Margo's Got Money Troubles
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