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“Simply being born female in our society is to grow up being told your worth as a person is tied to how slim and attractive you are. Even for those of us lucky enough to have evolved parents, the message is still driven home by the world at large.”

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Book:Love, Loss, and What We Ate: A Memoir
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Padma Lakshmi
Padma Lakshmi

Padma Lakshmi is an Indian-American author and television personality. Born on September 1, 1970, she is best known for her hosting role on the popular food show 'Top Chef'. Lakshmi has also published several books on cooking and life, and has made significant contributions to the culinary and fashion industries with her unique background and talents. more

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