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“Feelings trap us in the self, Tony dear. Doing a thing because you feel wonderful about it—even a work of charity—is in the end a selfish act. We perform the work not to feel wonderful but to know and love the other. It's the same with your romance. You may not feel your love, but God is still your loved one, your other.”

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Book:Father Joe: The Man Who Saved My Soul
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Father Joe: The Man Who Saved My Soul

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Tony Hendra
Tony Hendra

Tony Hendra, born in 1941, is an accomplished writer whose works span various literary genres, including novels, plays, and essays. Hendra is known for his unique sense of humor and profound insights, often exploring themes of humanity and social issues in his writing. more

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