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“This society doesn't work without booze – our parties aren't good enough, our conversations aren't sufficiently interesting, nor is our self-confidence high enough to sustain our interactions without alcohol. It's everywhere, lubricating everything.”

Quote by David Mitchell

Book:Back Story
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Back Story

This book delves into the intricate details of historical events and personal histories, offering readers a comprehensive understanding of the context and background that influence the present narrative. more

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David Mitchell
David Mitchell

David Mitchell is a British novelist known for his unique narrative techniques and profound humanistic concerns. His works often blend humor, satire, and philosophical thinking, winning him a wide audience. more

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