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“Esa presión que existía: sonreír; sentarse derecha; no decir groserías; comer con la debida etiqueta; vestirse a la moda; no subir de peso; cuidar de las uñas; el maquillaje perfecto; no tomar demasiado; no hablar en público de sexo; no contradecir al otro; cabello sin friz; aliento al despertar con olor a prado primaveral y con sabores de eucalipto y brisa fresca; oler bien, incluida la zona vaginal: hermosa y mítica como sirena, pero sin olor a pescado y sin vellos, por favor. Y así la lista tan larga como ancha, cambiante como cambian los tiempos, las modas, las industrias, el comercio, el marketing. Y ahí iba yo, cumpliendo estos lineamientos sin preguntarme si quería, si me sentía feliz, si era lo que de verdad me gustaba.”

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