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“Inaya showed up a little later with a clean tunic and trousers and long Ras Tiegan coat. "Thought you'd hand me an abaya," Nyx said. "Since when have you presented yourself as a real woman?" Inaya said. "Good point.”

Quote by Kameron Hurley

Book:Infidel

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Infidel

This book is an intimate account of the author's personal experiences and transformation, offering insights into the complexities of faith, identity, and the search for personal truth. more

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Kameron Hurley
Kameron Hurley

Kameron Hurley is an American science fiction and fantasy author known for her distinctive narrative style and profound exploration of social issues. Her works cover a variety of themes, including gender, race, and power structures. more

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