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“Sweetheart, happily ever after does exist, it’s just not what you think,” he said. “Happily ever after isn’t a solution to life’s problems or a guarantee that life will be easy; it’s a promise we make ourselves to always live our best lives, despite whatever circumstance comes our way. When we focus on joy in times of heartbreak, when we choose to laugh on the days it’s hard to smile, and when we count our blessings over our losses—that’s what a true happily ever after is all about. You don’t get there by being perfect; on the contrary, it’s our humanity that guides us. And that’s what fairy tales have been trying to teach us all along.”

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Book:Worlds Collide
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Chris Colfer
Chris Colfer

Chris Colfer, born on May 27, 1990, is an American actor. He gained widespread recognition for his role as Finn Hudson in the television series 'Glee', for which he won multiple awards. Outside of acting, Colfer is also an active writer, having published his own novels. more

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