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“Often it feels like I am breathing today only because a few years back I had no idea which nerve to cut...”

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“But for anyone out there whose life is being ruined by an active addict right now, please allow me to say the one thing that I don’t think gets said strongly enough or often enough: it’s okay for you to leave them. Don’t get me wrong: Addicts are precious and suffering children of God, and they do not deserve your contempt. But if you can ever save yourself from one—run. It’s okay for you to leave them. That’s what Rayya used to tell me, anyway, back when she was sober—or at least semisober. It has nothing to do with love, she said. Nothing to do with loyalty. Of course you love them, and you will always love them! But having the courage to cut off contact with an active addict is often the only way to survive their rampages—and it just might be the wake-up call that the addict needs, too.”

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Book:All the Way to the River
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“De un administrador de inmuebles que se mató me decían un día que había perdido a su hija hacía cinco años, que desde entonces había cambiado mucho y que esa historia "lo había minado". Imposible desear una palabra más exacta. Comenzar a pensar es comenzar a estar minado. La sociedad no tiene mucho que ver con estos comienzos. El gusano se encuentra en el corazón del hombre. Allí hay que buscarlo. Es preciso seguir y comprender el juego moral que lleva de la lucidez frente a la existencia a la evasión fuera de la luz.”

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“¿Cuál es, pues, ese incalculable sentimiento que priva al espíritu del sueño necesario para su vida? Un mundo que podemos explicar, aunque sea con malas razones, es un mundo familiar. Pero en cambio, en un universo privado de pronto de ilusiones y de luces, el hombre se siente extranjero. Es un destierro sin remedio, pues está privado de los recuerdos de una patria perdida o de la esperanza de una tierra prometida. Ese divorcio entre el hombre y su vida, el actor y su decorado, es propiamente el sentimiento de lo absurdo. Y omo todos los hombres sanos han pensado en el suicidio, cabe reconocer, sin más explicaciones, que hay un lazo directo entre ese sentimiento y la aspiración a la nada.”

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“Dostoiévski escreveu: «Se Deus não existisse, tudo seria permitido.» Aí se situa o ponto de partida do existencialismo. Com efeito, tudo é permitido se Deus não existe, fica o homem, por conseguinte, abandonado, já que não encontra em si, nem fora de si uma possibilidade a que se apegue. Antes de mais nada, não há desculpas para ele. Se, com efeito, a existência precede a essência, não será nunca possível referir uma explicação a uma natureza humana dada e imutável; por outras palavras, não há determinismo, o homem é livre, o homem é liberdade. Se, por outro lado, Deus não existe, não encotnramos diante de nós valores ou imposições que nos legitimam o comportamento. Assim, não temos nem atrás de nós, nem diante de nós, no domínio luminoso dos valores, justificações ou desculpas. Estamos sós e sem desculpas.”

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“Nuestra muerte es más un asunto de los que nos sobreviven que de nosotros mismos. Tanto si recordamos eso o no por el momento, esas palabras de un sabio malicioso son, en todo caso, valederas para el alma: "Mientras existimos, la muerte no existe, y, cuando la muerte existe, no existimos nosotros", por consiguiente, entre la muerte y nosotros no hay ninguna relación real; es una cosa que no nos atañe absolutamente en nada, que atañe todo lo mas al mundo y la naturaleza, y por eso todos los seres la contemplan con una gran tranquilidad y una incidencia egoísta.”

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“Para Sabina, vivir en la verdad, no mentirse a uno mismo, ni mentir a los demás, sólo es posible en el supuesto de que vivamos sin público. En cuanto hay alguien que observe nuestra actuación, nos adaptamos, queriendo o sin querer, a los ojos que nos miran y ya nada de lo que hacemos es verdad. Tener público, pensar en público, eso de vivir en la mentira. Sabina desprecia la literatura en la que los autores delatan todas sus intimidades y las de sus amigos. La persona que pierde su intimidad, lo pierde todo, piensa Sabina. Y la persona que se priva de ella voluntariamente, es un monstruo. Por eso Sabinas no sufre por tener que ocultar su amor. Al contrario, sólo así puede .”

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Book:The Unbearable Lightness of Being
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“I remember once listening to Rayya counsel a friend whose younger brother was lost in heroin addiction. This woman kept trying to save her beloved sibling by paying for one rehab after another, by trying to get him jobs, by bailing him out of jail, by letting him borrow her car, sleep on her couch, exploit her financially, use her soft heart as a landing pad. She was wrung out by years of heartbreak. I remember Rayya reaching across the kitchen table for this exhausted woman’s hand and saying, “Listen, babe. Let me break it down for you—you don’t have a brother anymore. He’s already gone. You need to understand this. There is no more brother, okay? What you have now is a vampire. I know it’s confusing, because this guy looks like your brother, and he sounds like your brother, but it’s a vampire. And that vampire will drain you of every dime and possession you have, and then he will discard you once there’s nothing left to take. And trust me—that vampire doesn’t give a shit about you. So you better start giving a shit about you, or else you’re gonna wake up one morning and discover that everything in your life is gone, including him.” “But he could die if I cut him off!” the woman protested. “Your brother is already dead,” Rayya told her. “And you might need to grieve that. But the only question now is whether he will ever decide to come back to life. That’s a matter between him and God. It’s got nothing to do with you.” I also heard her tell somebody once, “You can love an active addict for sure—but they can’t love you back.”

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Book:All the Way to the River
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