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“Both my mother and father regarded a traditional ceremony as old-fashioned and redundant. Both she and my father wanted to get rid of rituals like that, which they felt had nothing to do with their feelings. Love was the only thing that mattered to these two revolutionaries.”

Quote by Jung Chang

Book:Wild Swans: Three Daughters of China
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Wild Swans: Three Daughters of China

This memoir offers an intimate look into the lives of three sisters from China, spanning the tumultuous decades of the 20th century. The narrative delves into the personal and political transformations they experienced, reflecting the broader shifts in Chinese society during this time. more

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Jung Chang
Jung Chang

Renowned historian and writer, author of 'China: A History' and 'Wild Swans', among others. She analyzes Chinese history and culture with a unique perspective and profound insight, winning wide acclaim worldwide. more

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