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“Lena immediately thought of Sister Gemma in fourth grade who had instructed all the students at Blessed Martin de Porres Elementary to leave a little room on the edge of their seats for their guardian angels to sit.”

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Book:The Hand I Fan With
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The Hand I Fan With

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Tina McElroy Ansa
Tina McElroy Ansa

Tina McElroy Ansa is an American novelist born on November 18, 1949. Her works are known for their profound social commentary and exploration of female experiences. more

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