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“No one will actually come out and say this nowadays, but women are at their best when they're writing about men: their husbands, their fathers, their lost loves. It's when they start writing about themselves that they become unreadable.”

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Book:Five Tuesdays in Winter
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Five Tuesdays in Winter

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Lily King
Lily King

Lily King, born in 1963, is an accomplished American novelist. Her works are renowned for their profound character development and emotional expression, captivating readers worldwide. more

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