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“My love goes out to every woman; the lovers, the doers, the caregivers, the rebels, the leaders, the builders, silent movers, and more! You give being a woman a huge difference. A beautiful meaning. Thank you for becoming all without reserve. Most importantly, thanks for being many layers on many weather, and thanks for refusing to be defined by standards that don't sing your praises enough!”

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Book:LETTERS TO HIS SON
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Book:The System of Objects
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Book:Changing Paths
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Book:Go Back to Where You Came From: And Other Helpful Recommendations on How to Become American
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