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“People are like that .... They need to make their own worst experiences universal. It gives them a kind of support.’ And who can blame them? It is just infuriating to argue with someone like that; because of an experience that has denied them their humanity, they go around denying another kind of humanity in others, which is the truth of human variety -- it stands alongside our sameness.”

Quote by John Irving

Book:The Hotel New Hampshire
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The Hotel New Hampshire

Written by John Irving, this book is a coming-of-age story set against the backdrop of the American 20th century. It follows the Eccles siblings as they navigate their complex family dynamics and personal growth amidst various historical events. more

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John Irving
John Irving

John Irving is an American novelist known for his intricate narrative structures and profound character development. His works often explore themes of family, love, morality, and identity, enjoying great popularity among readers. more

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