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“I wish every day could be Halloween. We could all wear masks all the time. Then we could walk around and get to know each other before we got to see what we looked like under the masks.”

Quote by R. J. Palacio

Book:Wonder
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Wonder

This poignant story follows a young boy named August Pullman, who embarks on his first year of mainstream school after being homeschooled. His journey is filled with both triumphs and struggles as he navigates the complexities of social interactions and the prejudices of others. The narrative is told from multiple perspectives, offering a deep and nuanced look into the lives of those affected by August's condition. The book has been widely praised for its ability to foster empathy and its celebration of diversity. more

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R. J. Palacio
R. J. Palacio

R. J. Palacio is an accomplished American author known for her unique perspective and profound insights into human nature and social relationships. Her works often delve into the challenges of growth and social interactions. The specific dates of her birth and death are unknown. more

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