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Woman: An Intimate Geography

This comprehensive work delves into the intricate details of the female body, offering insights into its physical and emotional complexities. It covers topics such as reproductive health, menstrual cycles, and the impact of societal norms on women's bodies. more

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Natalie Angier
Natalie Angier

Natalie Angier is an American science writer renowned for her in-depth reporting on scientific topics. Born on February 16, 1958, she graduated from Harvard University with a Bachelor's degree in biology. Angier's writing career began at The Washington Post, and she later became a science journalist for The New York Times, serving as a science editor for many years. more

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“Being in a state of denial is a universally human response to situations which threaten to overwhelm. People who were abused as children sometimes carry their denial like precious cargo without a port of destination. It enabled us to survive our childhood experiences, and often we still live in survival mode decades beyond the actual abuse. We protect ourselves to excess because we learned abruptly and painfully that no one else would.”

“I explain to my patients that abused children often find it hard to disentangle themselves from their dysfunctional families, whereas children grow away from good, loving parents with far less conflict. After all, isn't that the task of a good parent, to enable the child to leave home?”

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