“When I'm standing in the middle of the salt flats, where you swear that the pupils of your eyes have turned white because of the searing heat that is rising from the desert, I think of my childhood, I think of my mother, my father, my grandparents; I think of the history that we hold there and it is beautiful to me. But it is both a blessing and a burden to be rooted in place. It's recognizing the pattern of things, almost feeling a place before you even see it. In Southern Utah, on the Colorado plateau where canyon walls rise upward like praying hands, that is a holy place to me.” ThinkingFeelingsHandsEyeBeautifulMotherFatherWhiteChildhoodMiddleWallPrayingHolyBlessingStandingPatternsBurdenDesertHeatRisingFlatsSouthernSaltRootedSwearGrandparentRecognizingPupilsCanyonsColoradoUtahHoly PlacesSouthern Utah Author:Terry Tempest Williams
“Behavior runs in deep channels that were cut during early childhood, and it is very difficult to alter them. In order to change a deeply ingrained pattern, you have to build a sturdy dam, dig another canal and reroute the river in the new direction. That effort is rarely successful over the long haul.” LongRunningOrderDifficultEffortSuccessfulCuttingChildhoodBehaviorRiversPatternsHaulDamsEarly ChildhoodCanalsSturdyNew DirectionsLong Haul Book:Life on the Edge Source: Life on the Edge
“Middle-class kids get to play, develop their thinking ability. Poor kids are much more likely to get regimentation under the guise of socialization. On top of it, we have huge segregation in early childhood programs. I don't see these patterns changing anytime soon, and that's a big obstacle.” ThinkingPlayBigsKidsAbilityPoorClassChildhoodMiddleHugeProgramPatternsObstaclesMiddle ClassSegregationGuiseEarly ChildhoodSocializationRegimentation Author:Pedro Noguera
“I suppose in the end what shift occurred - is that at Yale I began to become more materially and conceptually aware of the mechanisms that gave rise to those types of patterns and paintings. And so the copying that happened in the childhood was a much more conscious type of copying in later years.” YearsEndsHappenedChildhoodPaintingTypeConsciousPatternsMechanismCopyingYale Author:Kehinde Wiley
“To some degree, the critic arises out of that negativity bias in that our brains are oriented towards threat and toward survival. The critic really started as a survivor mechanism in early infancy and childhood when we were trying to navigate our early family system and culture; when we're learning how to fit in so we could optimize that flow of love and affection. It was an internal voice telling us to shut certain patterns and reactions down, that negativity bias that's always looking for what's wrong, looking for the threat.” TryingCertainCultureVoiceBrainChildhoodFitDegreesSurvivalFlowThreatCriticsPatternsAffectionReactionsAriseInternalsSurvivorMechanismNegativityBiasInfancyNavigateLove And Affection Author:Mark Coleman
“The pattern often has been entrenched since childhood... [abusive people] don't think that there is anything wrong with them because that is the way they were brought up in their family.” PeopleThinkingWayHas BeensChildhoodPatternsAbusive Author:Gary Chapman
“Understand the nature and influence of repeating patterns, from childhood experiences or even from past lives. Wthout understanding, patterns tend to repeat, unnecessarily damaging the relationship.” PastUnderstandingInfluenceChildhoodPatternsRepeatsPast Life Book:Messages from the Masters: Tapping into the Power of Love Source: Messages from the Masters: Tapping into the Power of Love