“sex has never been private and it never will be. We perform the act in private but we must be public about the connection. Sex is how we pass down worldly goods. It's how we create the primary unit of our society, the couple. ... This rule applies to gay people as well as straight people. ... The community absolutely must know who is straight, who is gay, who is married, and who is single. Without that information we make painful mistakes and lose time.” PeopleKnowsWellsSexCommunityLosesMistakeInformationCoupleGayMarriedConnectionsPainfulSexualityPrimariesOur SocietyGoodsUnitsWorldlyGay People Author:Rita Mae Brown
“I had wondered for a long time why God had preferences and why all souls did not receive an equal amount of grace [...] Jesus saw fit to enlighten me about this mystery. He set the book of nature before me and I saw that all the flowers He has created are lovely. The splendor of the rose and whiteness of the lily do not rob the little violet of its scent nor the daisy of its simple charm. I realized that if every tiny flower wanted to be a rose, spring would lose its loveliness and there would be no wild flowers to make the meadows gay.” IfsLittlesLongBookSoulWould BeWantedJesusLosesSimpleSawsGraceMysteryFlowerAmountFitGayEqualLong TimeSpringRoseI RealizedTinyLovelyCharmScentPreferenceVioletEnlighteningLiliesSplendorMeadowsDaisiesLovelinessWhiteness Author:Therese of Lisieux
“As a gay parent I must flee Russia or lose my children” ChildrenParentLosesGayRussiaMy ChildrenGay Parents Author:Masha Gessen
“Have you ever had a gay friend lose weight and you can't decide if it's good news or not? Hey you look... great?” IfsLooksLosesGayNewsWeightHeyGood NewsLose WeightHey YouGay Friend Author:Dana Gould
“I think I started out okay but with AIDS came a great deal of silence about gayness and this period of lose and morning, but at the same time a kind of feeling like you wanted to get back into the closet because being gay was such a terrible thing at that point.” ThinkingKindFeelingsWantedLosesDealsSilenceMorningLike YouPeriodsTerribleGayOkayAidsGet BackClosetsTerrible ThingsBeing GayGayness Author:Margaret Cho
“Even today every year we lose an awful lot of young people, teenagers, who take their own lives because they're - they are gay or transgender.” PeopleYearsTodayYoungLosesGayAwfulTeenagerTransgender Author:Cleve Jones
“Lady, lady, never start Conversation toward your heart; Keep your pretty words serene; Never murmur what you mean. Show yourself, by word and look, Swift and shallow as a brook. Be as cool and quick to go As a drop of April snow; Be as delicate and gay As a cherry flower in May. Lady, lady, never speak Of the tears that burn your cheek- She will never win him, whose Words had shown she feared to lose. Be you wise and never sad, You will get your lovely lad. Never serious be, nor true, And your wish will come to you- And if that makes you happy, kid, You'll be the first it ever did.” IfsFirstsLooksHeartMayMeanShowsKidsWinningSpeakWishLosesWiseTearsSeriousFlowerGayConversationLovelySnowBe YouDelicateCheeksShallowAprilMake You HappyBrooksSereneCherriesLadPretty WordsHappy KidYour Pretty Author:Dorothy Parker
“All America loses when any person is denied or forced out of a job because of sexual orientation. Being gay, the last time I thought about it, seemed to have nothing to do with the ability to read a balance book, fix a broken bone, or change a spark plug.” PersonsBookJobsLastsAmericaLosesAbilityBrokenBalanceGayBonesSparksDeniedLast TimeOrientationPlugsBeing GayBroken Bone Author:William J. Clinton
“I feel that gay people not being able to get married for generations, forever, meant that we came up with alternative ways of recognizing relationships. And I worry that if everybody has access to the same institutions that we lose the creativity of subcultures having to make it on their own. And I like gay culture.” PeopleIfsWayFeelsAbleCultureLosesCreativityWorryForeverGenerationsGayMarriedInstitutionsAccessAlternativesRecognizingGay PeopleSubcultureGay Culture Author:Rachel Maddow
“While the behavior of the Russian government, Putin and Putin punks are abhorrent, nothing will be changed by boycotting the Sochi Winter Games. In fact, those who are appalled by the treatment of LGBT Russian citizens will lose an incredible opportunity for the world to show their disgust.” WorldFactsShowsGovernmentOpportunityGamesLosesChangedCitizensGayBehaviorWinterIncrediblesTreatmentLgbtPunkDisgustingPutinAbhorrentRussian GovernmentSochi Author:David Mixner