“As a leader, parent, or friend - don't let someone's poor attitude and poor performance hinder your commitment to holding them to higher standards. You don't need to make the person 'wrong' for the way they're behaving, simply point out that the behavior is ineffective.” WayNeedsPersonsParentPoorAttitudeLeaderHigherGratitudeBehaviorStandardsCommitmentPerformancesHinderHigher StandardsPoor Performance Author:Hal Elrod
“Welfare states on both sides of the Atlantic have discovered that largesse to losers does not reduce their hostility to society, but only increases it. Far from producing gratitude, generosity is seen as an admission of guilt, and the reparations as inadequate compensations for injustices - leading to worsening behavior by the recipients.” DoeStatesSidesGratitudeBehaviorIncreaseGuiltInjusticeGenerosityWelfareLoserBoth SidesHostilityCompensationInadequateAdmissionWelfare StateReparationsLargesse Author:Thomas Sowell
“Adopting the behaviors and habits of surrendered people helps us improve our relationships, feel love and gratitude, get healthier, give up destructive people and behavior patterns, and become more successful and influential in our lives and careers. And that's just the tip of the iceberg as far as benefits go.” PeopleGivingFeelsHelpingCareersSuccessfulOur LivesHabitGratitudeGiving UpBehaviorBenefitsPatternsDestructiveOur RelationshipInfluentialAdoptingIcebergLove And GratitudeTip Of The IcebergBehavior Patterns Author:Judith Orloff
“Often our good deeds make enemies for us, and the ungrateful person despises us on two counts; for he is not only unwilling to acknowledge the gratitude he owes us: he does not want to have his benefactor as witness to his thankless behavior.” WantPersonsDoeTwoEnemyGratitudeBehaviorDeedsWitnessAcknowledgeDespiseGood DeedsUnwillingUngratefulBenefactorsThanklessUngrateful Person Author:Madeleine de Souvre, marquise de Sable
“I think aging is underrated. As you grow older, you have perspective and you realize just how fortunate you are to be working. To be working with the people I've had the chances to work with, I honestly feel like the most fortunate person in the world. I think it's hugely important when you work to bring with you that spirit, which includes and immense sense of gratitude. How that translates into behavior is just to bring your energy, your good spirit and your appreciation, and do your homework and really listen to the person in front of you.” PeopleThinkingWorldImportantSpiritEnergyRealizingChancePerspectiveGratitudeBehaviorAgingAppreciationHonestlyTranslateHomework Author:Ann Dowd
“I trust that no loving thought goes unnoticed, even when I do not see immediate gratitude or behavior changes in the other person.” PersonsGratitudeBehaviorUnnoticedBehavior Change Book:Walking Through Walls: Practical Spirituality in an Impractical World Source: Walking Through Walls: Practical Spirituality in an Impractical World