“If your primary focus is to get over your health problems or get past a relationship crisis so that you can return to your former life and old patterns- that is, get back to business as usual-you are not really living. The distinction is paradoxical and sometimes subtle. It's the difference between walking through your life on your way to somewhere, and walking as your life. Even if you believe that where you want to get is extremely important, that destination is secondary. Your immediate experience is what really matters. It is your life.” IfsWayWantLifeBelieveImportantSometimesMatterProblemPastDifferencesFocusReturnWalkingCrisisPatternsFormerPrimariesDistinctionSubtleOver YouDestinationGet BackUsualGet OverIf You BelieveParadoxicalHealth ProblemsReally LivingFormer Life Author:Richard Moss
“Be patient with yourself. Perfection comes not in this life, but in the next life. Don't demand things that are unreasonable, but demand of yourself improvement. As you let the Lord help you through that, He will make the difference.” LifeBelieveSelfGodHelpingMotivationalChristianFaithNextBeliefChangeDifferencesReligiousLordDemandSelf ImprovementPerfectionTransformationPatientImprovementThis LifeMaking A DifferenceSelf MotivationTrust In GodBe PatientMaking ChangesSurgeonsBe True To YourselfConfidence In GodUnreasonableSelf TransformationBeing A Better PersonNext LifeGod Help MeNot Being PerfectAlways Room For Improvement Author:Russell M. Nelson
“There are two kinds of stories, the ones you live and the ones you make up. And nobody knows the difference, and I don't ever tell which is which.” KnowsLifeKindTwoStoriesWisdomDifferencesKnowledgeNobody KnowsKnowledge Wisdom Author:Ernest Hemingway
“Don't be a perfectionist, because perfectionists often spend too much time on little differences at the margins at the expense of other big, important things. Be an effective imperfectionist. Solutions that broadly work well (e.g., how people should contact each other in the event of crises) are generally better than highly specialized solutions (e.g., how each person should contact each other in the event of every conceivable crisis).” PeopleLifeShouldWellsLittlesPersonsImportantBigsGrowthDifferencesToo MuchEventsSolutionsCrisisImportant ThingsPersonal GrowthInvestingContactExpensesMarginsPerfectionist Author:Ray Dalio
“People who excel at book learning tend to call up from memory what they have learned in order to follow stored instructions. Others who are better at internalized learning use the thoughts that flow from their subconscious. The experienced skier doesn't recite instructions on how to ski and then execute them; rather, he does it well "without thinking," in the same way he breathes without thinking. Understanding these differences is essential.” PeopleThinkingWayLifeWellsDoeBookUseOrderUnderstandingGrowthDifferencesMemoriesEssentialsFlowPersonal GrowthInvestingBreatheInstructionSubconsciousSkisSkiersBook Learning Author:Ray Dalio
“People don't live their lives in a series of scenes that form a dramatic narrative, they don't speak in dialogue, they're not lit by a cinematographer or scored by a composer. The properties of real life and the properties of drama have almost nothing to do with each other. The difference between writing about reporters and being a reporter is the same as the difference between drawing a building and building a building.” PeopleLifeWritingRealFormSpeakDifferencesBuildingDramaScenePropertySeriesDrawingReal LifeDialogueNarrativeDramaticComposerReportersLitCinematographers Author:Aaron Sorkin
“Man is the only animal that laughs and weeps; for he is the only animal that is struck with the difference between what things are, and what they ought to be.” MenLifeMotivationalDifferencesAnimalHistoryLaughingHuman NatureOughtLaughterPetMiscellaneousHumans And Animals Author:William Hazlitt
“We all have to learn, in one way or another, that neither men nor boys get second chances in this world. We all get new chances to the end of our lives, but not second chances in the same set of circumstances; and the great difference between one person and another is how he takes hold and uses his first chance, and how he takes his fall if it is scored against him.” IfsMenWorldWayLifeFirstsPersonsEndsUseFallDifferencesChanceBoysLearningOur LivesThis WorldCircumstancesOne WaySecond Chance Book:True Manliness Source: True Manliness