“Acting for me was an escape and it wasn't until Smoke Signals that made me realize that acting is a personal development and challenge to grow. Smoke Signals really mirrored the way I grew up and how I felt, and that movie was the first time I'd dealt with my parents' death and how I felt that loss and sadness and anger. After that movie I said, "Y'know what, I have to realistically wear my emotions now when I do a job. That's gotta be as real as it gets. It's not just dialogue anymore."” KnowsWayFirstsMadeSaidRealJobsGrowsFeltParentRealizingChallengesLossActingEmotionSadnessGrewDevelopmentGrew UpFirst TimePersonal DevelopmentDialogueSmokeSignalsSadness And AngerSmoke Signals Author:Adam Beach
“For most couples who come to me - especially in the aftermath of the revelation of an affair, when they are in a state of crisis and fear the loss of a predictable future - they start to have conversations for the first time about love, sex, monogamy, and marriage. Most couples don't negotiate or don't even converse about any of these things until the crisis of the affair has actually forced them to. Why does it take infidelity to get us talking about the stuff that should be there from the start?” LossCoupleFirst TimeCrisisAffairRevelationsInfidelityPredictableMonogamy Author:Esther Perel
“There's a moment when love makes you believe in death for the first time. You recognize the one whose loss, even contemplated, you'll carry forever, like a sleeping child. All grief, anyone's grief...is the weight of a sleeping child.” FirstsBelieveChildrenMomentsLossSleepGriefForeverFirst TimeWeightFugitiveSleeping Child Author:Anne Michaels
“I think that's the real loss of innocence: the first time you glimpse the boundaries that will limit your potential.” ThinkingFirstsRealLossLimitsFirst TimeBoundariesInnocenceGlimpseLoss Of Innocence Book:A Fraction of the Whole Source: A Fraction of the Whole
“Something I tried to hold onto, to touch if only for a moment, but it slipped away from me like the air, like an illusion, or a dream that floats away and is lost. I wept in my sleep as though it was something I was losing now; a loss I was experiencing for the first time, and not something I had lost a long time ago.” IfsFirstsLongMomentsDreamLostLossSleepAirLong TimeLosingIllusionFirst TimeFloatsLong Time Ago Book:Woman at Point Zero Source: Woman at Point Zero
“To see and feel one's beloved naked for the first time is one of life's pure, irreducible epiphanies. If there is a true religion in the universe, it must include that truth of contact or be forever hollow. To make love to the one true person who deserves that love is one of the few absolute rewards of being a human being, balancing all of the pain, loss, awkwardness, loneliness, idiocy, compromise, and clumsiness that go with the human condition. To make love to the right person makes up for a lot of mistakes.” IfsFeelsFirstsHumansPersonsPainUniverseSexHuman BeingsLossLove IsMistakeForeverConditionsLonelinessPureDeserveFirst TimeAbsolutesRewardsNakedContactCompromiseBelovedHuman ConditionMaking LoveHollowEpiphanyRight PersonTrue ReligionAwkwardnessIdiocyClumsinessEndymionTrue Person Book:Rise of Endymion Source: Rise of Endymion