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“The Dictionary defines Soul Mate as: A person who is perfectly suited to another in temperament. Before I met mine, I didn't know I was bonkers!”

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Author:James Hauenstein
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“Jika ada perselisihan, kami bicarakan dan cari jalan tengah untuk menghindari pertengkaran di depan anak-anak. Hal ini penting karena riset menemukan bahwa ketika orangtua sering bertengkar di depan anak, stress yang dirasakan orangtua bisa dirasakan anak dan mempengaruhi perkembangan otak mereka. Sebaliknya jika mereka sering melihat kasih sayang yang ditunjukkan ayah-ibunya, ada pembentukan neuron di otak mereka. Jadi keliru jika mengatakan satu-satunya yang terpenting adalah hubungan orangtua dengan anak, karena kesuksesan anak dalam hal kognitif dan emosional bukan ditentukan berdasarkan secure attachment antara ibu dan anak, tapi secure attachment antara ayah-ibunya.”

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Book:Pendidikan Keluarga Kami
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“Our brainstems take in the rhythmic movements of [our mother/primary attachment] as she attentively follows our bid for play, our drift towards sleep, our signal that it is time to be quietly together. In our midbrain, our SEEKING system finds the waiting eyes and arms of our mother's CARE system in times of PLAY or GRIEF, patterning the expectation that connections will be restored when they are momentarily lost, that ruptures will call forth repairs.”

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Book:The Heart of Trauma: Healing the Embodied Brain in the Context of Relationships
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“Ruptures are a daily occurrence in all our relationships and ... our systems only need to receive resonance and reflection on the first try at connecting about 33 percent of the time to cultivate security. All the rest is optimally rupture and repair.”

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Book:The Heart of Trauma: Healing the Embodied Brain in the Context of Relationships
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