“What is right or duty without power ? To tell a man it is his duty to submit his judgment to the judgment of the church, is like telling a wife it is her duty to love her husband a thing easy to say, but meaning simply nothing. Affection must be won, not commanded.” MenEasyChurchWifeDutyHusbandJudgmentAffectionSubmit Book:The Nemesis of Faith Source: The Nemesis of Faith
“True love is not the helpless desire to possess the cherished object of one's fervent affection; true love is the disciplined generosity we require of ourselves for the sake of another when we would rather be selfish; that, at least, is how I have taught myself to love my wife.” DesireLove IsWifeObjectsTaughtSakeAffectionMy WifeSelfishGenerosityHelplessTrue Love IsFerventBeing SelfishLove My Wife Book:The Emperor of Ocean Park Source: The Emperor of Ocean Park
“I know also another man who married a widow with several children; and when one of the girls had grown into her teens he insisted on marrying her also, having first by some means won her affections. The mother, however, was much opposed to this marriage, and finally gave up her husband entirely to her daughter; and to this very day the daughter bears children to her stepfather, living as wife in the same house with her mother!” KnowsMenFirstsMeanChildrenMotherGirlHouseWifeBearsHusbandMarriedDaughterAffectionTeensAnother ManGave UpWidowsMarryingPolygamyStepfathersMarrying Her Author:T. B. H. Stenhouse
“But you are not under a system similar to that by which the Jews were obliged to pay tithes to the priests. If there were any such rule laid down in the Gospel, it would destroy the beauty of spontaneous giving and take away all the bloom from the fruit of your liberality! There is no law to tell me what I should give my father on his birthday. There is no rule laid down in any law book to decide what present a husband should give to his wife, nor what token of affection we should bestow upon others whom we love. No, the gift must be a free one, or it has lost all its sweetness.” IfsGivingShouldBookLawFatherLostPayWifeHusbandFruitAffectionJewPriestsSpontaneousSweetnessObligedTokensTitheLiberalityLaw Books Author:Charles Spurgeon
“There is a close tie of affection between sovereigns and their subjects; and as chaste wives should have no eyes but for their husbands, so faithful liegemen should keep their regards at home and not look after foreign crowns. For my part I like not for my sheep to wear a stranger's mark nor to dance after a foreigner's whistle.” ShouldLooksHomeEyeWifeSubjectsHusbandShould HaveMarkRelationRegardAffectionStrangerFaithfulTiesPatriotismSheepCrownsMonarchyForeignersInternational RelationsChaste Author:Elizabeth I
“Let the husband render to his wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife to her husband.” WifeHusbandAffection Author:Paul the Apostle
“In the first place, the government ought not to be invested with power to control the affections, any more than the consciences of citizens. A man has at least as good a right to choose his wife, as he has to choose his religion. His taste may not suit his neighbors; but so long as his deportment is correct, they have no right to interfere with his concerns.” MenFirstsMayLongGovernmentWifeOughtCitizensTasteConscienceConcernAffectionNeighborSuitsInterfere Author:Lydia M. Child
“He that hath wife and children hath given hostages to fortune, for they are impediments to great enterprises, either of virtue or mischief. Certainly the best works and of greatest merit for the public have proceeded from the unmarried or childless men, which both in affection and means have married and endowed the public. He was reputed one of the wise men that made answer to the question, when a man should marryA young man not yet, an elder man not at all.” MenShouldMeanChildrenMadeYoungGivenAnswersVirtueWiseWifeMarriedFortuneAffectionMeritYoung ManEnterpriseEldersMischiefBest WorkHostageImpedimentsUnmarried Author:Francis Bacon
“In India, love often follows marriage. I know many people who are still very deeply in love with their wives, who they barely knew before they were married. In America there's this idea that "how could someone get married without being deeply in love with each other?" but in a lot of these cases feelings of love and affection actually grow after they've been legally and formally brought together.” PeopleKnowsStillsIdeasFeelingsTogetherAmericaGrowsCasesWifeMarriedIndiaAffectionVery DeepLove And AffectionDeeply In Love Author:Pankaj Mishra