“For every group, malevolence is always somewhere else. Maybe we understand at this point in history that it can occur at night in darkened rooms where small children sleep. However, surely not in academia. Surely lying and deception do not occur among people who go to conferences, who write books, who testify in court, and who have PhDs. At one point I complained to a Florida judge that I was astonished to an expert witness lying on the stand [about child sexual abuse research]. I thought one had to tell the truth in court. I thought if someone didn't, she didn't get her milk and cookies. I thought God came down and plucked someone right out of the witness stand if he lied in court. I thought a lying expert witness would step out of court and get hit by a bus. A wiser woman than I, the judge's answer was, “Silly you." Confessions of a Whistle-Blower: Lessons Learned Author: Anna C. Salter. Ethics & Behavior, Volume 8, Issue 2 June 1998” TruthLawLyingJusticeCrimeHonestyCourtInjusticeDeceptionShockChild AbuseLieImmoralNaiveLiedDishonestyChild Sexual AbuseAcademiaLiarCriminalNaivetyAcademicsPerjuryChild AbusersNatural JusticePedophile ProtectorsPedophile ProtectorExpert WitnessMoral StandardsDefense WitnessChild Abuse AllegationsChild Abuse ProtectorsNaivReputions Author:Anna Salter
“The people who support and defend those accused of child sexual abuse indiscriminately, those who join organizations dedicated to defending people who are accused of child sexual abuse with no screening whatsoever to keep out those who are guilty as charged are likewise not necessarily people engaged in an objective search for the truth. Some of them can and do use deceit, trickery, misstated research, harassment, intimidation, and charges of laundering federal money to silence their opponents. Those of us who are the recipients of bogus lawsuits and frivolous ethics charges and phony phone calls and pickets outside our offices must know more than the research to survive such tactics. We must know something about endurance and about the importance of refusing to be intimidated. Confessions of a Whistle-Blower: Lessons Learned Author: Anna C. Salter. Ethics & Behavior, Volume 8, Issue 2 June 1998” TruthResearchEthicsLiesDeceptionManipulationBullyingChild Sexual AbuseIntimidationAbusersFalse MemoriesSilencingFalse Memory Syndrome FoundationPedophilesMisuse Of PowerFmsfChild AbusersSilencedFalse AccusationsFalse AllegationsPedophile ProtectorsHarrasmentMisuse Of AuthorityDefense WitnessDirty TricksFalse Pretences Author:Anna Salter
“Recently I interviewed a psychopath. This is always a humbling experience because it teaches over and over how much of human motivation and experience is outside my narrow range. Despite the psychopath's lack of conscience and lack of empathy for others, he is inevitably better at fooling people than any other type of offender. I suppose conscience just slows you down. A child convicted molester, this particular one made friends with a correctional officer who invited him to live in his home after he was released - despite the fact the officer had a nine-year-old daughter. The officer and his wife were so taken with the offender that, after the offender lived with them for a few months, they initiated adoption proceedings- adoption for a man almost their age. Of course, he was a child molester living in the same house as a child. Not surprisingly, he molested the daughter the entire time he lived there. [...] What these experiences taught have me is that even when people are warned of a previously founded case of even a conviction, they still routinely underestimate the pathology with which they are dealing.” EmpathyConscienceLiesPrisonConvictionJailChild AbuseCharmingChild Sexual AbusePsychopathLiarCriminalPathologyGroomingGuardPedophilesTrickedPredatorsOffenderFoolingChild MolestersCon ManPrison Officer Book:Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders Source: Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders
“In projecting onto others their own moral sense, therapists sometimes make terrible errors. Child physical abusers are automatically labeled “impulsive," despite extensive evidence that they are not necessarily impulsive but more often make thinking errors that justify the assaults. Sexual and physical offenders who profess to be remorseful after they are caught are automatically assumed to be sincere. After all, the therapist would feel terrible if he or she did such a thing. It makes perfect sense that the offender would regret abusing a child. People routinely listen to their own moral sense and assume that others share it. Thus, those who are malevolent attack others as being malevolent, as engaging in dirty tricks, as being “in it for the money,“ and those who are well meaning assume others are too, and keep arguing logically, keep producing more studies, keep expecting an academic debate, all the time assuming that the issue at hand is the truth of the matter. Confessions of a Whistle-Blower: Lessons Learned Author: Anna C. Salter. Ethics & Behavior, Volume 8, Issue 2 June 1998 p122” TruthFaithPsychologyCrimeTrustConflictDebateDeceptionTherapyMoralsChild AbuseRemorseRapeProjectionAttackingSelf CenteredChild Sexual AbuseIdentificationAcademiaArgumentsAbusersPedophileAbuserPedophilesPaedophilesRapistFalse BeliefCognitive DistortionsMoral StandardsDirty TricksJustifying ViolenceSex OffenderMoral SenseChild Physical AbuseOveridentificationCognitive ErrorsMalevolent People Author:Anna Salter
“We must know something about malevolence, about how to recognize it, and about how not to make excuses for it. We must know that we cannot expect fair play. That is, perhaps, most crucial of all. Those of us who practice in this field must face the implications of the fact that we are dealing with sexual abuse. Child sex offenders-people who exploit children’s bodies and betray their trust-are not going to hesitate to lie outright. This is obvious but nonetheless frequently seems to catch people by surprise. Confessions of a Whistle-Blower: Lessons Learned Author: Anna C. Salter. Ethics & Behavior, Volume 8, Issue 2 June 1998” LyingCourtInjusticeDefenseDeceptionMoralsUnfairImmoralLiedChild Sexual AbuseIncestLiarAbusersProsecutionTrialPerjuryChild Abuse SurvivorsRapistsPedophile ProtectorsExpert WitnessDefense Witness Author:Anna Salter
“I should meet many people who do not know anyone personally who has been raped or molested as a child. But I can't remember seeing a newspaper without a rape or molestation charge in it somewhere, and when I ask groups how many people know someone personally with a history of molestation, almost always, every hand in the room goes up.” AwarenessCrimeSexual AbuseRapeChild Sexual AbuseSexual AssaultVictimsChild RapePedophiliaPedophilesMolestationChild MolestationChild Molestors Book:Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders Source: Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders
“In all the interviews I have done, I cannot remember one offender who did not admit privately to more victims than those for whom he had been caught. On the contrary, most offenders had been charged with and/or convicted of from one to three victims. In the interviews I have done, they have admitted to roughly 10 to 1,250 victims. What was truly frightening was that all the offenders had been reported before by children, and the reports had been ignored.” AwarenessCrimeCriminalsGuiltySexual AbuseRapeChild Sexual AbuseSexual AssaultOffendersSociety DenialChild RapePedophiliaPedophilesMolestationConvictedCrime ReportingSex OffenderRape Statistics Book:Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders Source: Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders