“I think humans might be like butterflies; people die every day without many other people knowing about them, seeing their colors, hearing their stories... and when humans are broken, they're like broken butterfly wings; suddenly there are so many beauties that are seen in different ways, so many thoughts and visions and possibilities that form, which couldn't form when the person wasn't broken! So it is not a very sad thing to be broken, after all! It's during the times of being broken, that you have all the opportunities to become things unforgettable! Just like the broken butterfly wing that I found, which has given me so many thoughts, in so many ways, has shown me so many words, and imaginations! But butterflies need to know, that it doesn't matter at all if the whole world saw their colors or not! But what matters is that they flew, they glided, they hovered, they saw, they felt, and they knew! And they loved the ones whom they flew with! And that is an existence worthwhile!” PeopleInspirationalHumansInspirational QuotesHumanityHumanBeing HumanInspirational LivingButterfliesBroken WingsButterfly WingsIt S Okay To Be Broken Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I am okay with the imperfection of my own story. We are alive thanks to our imperfect stories and we need to be okay with that. Straight lines have never led the way to colourful pictures. I am okay with all that I feel, with all the pieces of me; and so should you. Every part of my story has the potential to connect with another soul out there, and so does yours.” Inspirational LifeWisdom QuotesLife And LivingHumanInspirational AttitudeAuthenticityPeace Of MindHumannessAcceptance Of OneselfRealness Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The only problem with her is that she is too perfect. She is bad in a way that entices, and good in a way that comforts. She is mischief but then she is the warmth of home. The dreams of the wild and dangerous but the memories of childhood and gladness. She is perfection. And when given something perfect, it is the nature of man to dedicate his mind to finding something wrong with it and then when he is able to find something wrong with it, he rejoices in his find, and sees only the flaw, becoming blind to everything else! And this is why man is never given anything that is perfect, because when given the imperfect and the ugly, man will dedicate his mind to finding what is good with the imperfect and upon finding one thing good with the extremely flawed, he will only see the one thing good, and no longer see everything that is ugly. And so....man complains to God for having less than what he wants... but this is the only thing that man can handle. Man cannot handle what is perfect. It is the nature of the mortal to rejoice over the one thing that he can proudly say that he found on his own, with no help from another, whether it be a shadow in a perfect diamond, or a faint beautiful reflection in an extremely dull mirror.” MenHumanityMankindHuman NaturePerfectionMortalsFlawsImperfectionMortalFlawHuman KindBlindness Of ManMortal MenThe Nature Of ManBlind MenThe Stupidity Of Man Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We are able to overcome grievances towards others when we understand that everyone is acting from their own fallible experiences in life. You can only react to anything, from your own storage of life experience that's happened to you thus far. No one can possibly react to anything beyond their own personal storage box of life. That's why it's bound to be fallible, bound to hurt someone else who's coming from somewhere else, and that's also why sometimes something explodes! Nothing is ever personally about us. We all look back ten years later and then see what we could have said or done differently. Better. It's the same way for everybody, and that's how we can let things go.” Human NatureLetting GoHumanismHuman Nature QuotesHuman FollyHuman Nature WisdomHuman Nature Philosophers Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I have found, that we often must realise, that we cannot be angry at people for simply not being capable of stepping out of their comfort zones to be decent human beings. You are born with this wild respect for people and you think it's all equal. And that's what hurts. Because it's not all equal, not all people are going to show up for you, not all people are going to do the decent thing for you, even if it's something that would be so easy for you to do. You can never make your standard into the standard for everyone. Some people are just frogs in a mud puddle, and really, they're actually perfectly fine with that!” PeopleHuman NatureLetting GoExpectationsMoving OnManaging PeoplePeople ManagementManaging Expectations Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We live on a spinning rock suspended in darkness, which evolves around a dying star. Our spinning rock was once ruled and owned by gigantic reptiles, all over! In sea, land, and air, gigantic reptiles roamed! Then a smaller rock fell from the sky and made a hole in the ground, so big that all the giant reptiles died! We live on a spinning rock we got from dragons flying through the air, and on this rock we kill each other over things like religion and money! And on this rock we make friends, we fall in love, we work hard to earn papers so we can buy things. On this rock we have dreams at night that remind us of beautiful places we have never been to, beautiful wonders we have never imagined before... we write stories and we make books, we try to travel to other rocks around us, we wonder if anyone else is out there. Our planet, and our existence as a human species, is bizarre! Our reality is bizarre! What we think is normal, when spelled out, is not normal at all. It's only normal because we are familiar with it. We are residents of a universe that is expanding at a rate of more than 5 billion meters per every few seconds, forming new realities and new substances with each expansion! We will never become familiar with even the very tip of what actually is! So why are any of us afraid of the possibilities of what could be? Why does this frighten us, why does this scare us? When we actually never know anything at all!” Human NatureThis WorldHumanismOur PlanetUniverse QuotesEarth QuotesThe World Author:C. JoyBell C.
“There are going to be truckloads of people who will see the light in you before you see it. They are going to see the tree inside of your seed before you even realise that it's going to be a tree one day. But they're not going to bend over and reach down towards the flame to say "I see you, keep glowing." They're not going to kneel down and tap the ground and say to the seed "I see you, keep reaching." Instead, they're going to try and snuff out the flame, they're going to try and drown the seed. Lest you see your brightness; lest you realise you will one day bear fruit! It's tragic, because, how do you protect what you can't even see? Put your hand to your chest and feel the warmth of your light; press your palm to the Earth and feel the throbbing of the seed that is you; close your eyes, child, and never leave you!” Human NatureSelf EsteemWisdom QuotesEnvySelf RealizationBelieve In YourselfBelieve In YouWisdom InspirationalRise UpBe Strong Author:C. JoyBell C.
“It is so very helpful to know exactly how, and in what ways, you are devilish. It is non-beneficial, and even detrimental, to go about life with a mental image of yourself that is just not accurate. A projection of things that you want to see, blinding yourself to the things you don't want to see. The devil in you and the angel in you both curate the best life for you, but you make it harder on both of them when you acknowledge only one of them. I like to see them both and give each their due honours.” Human NatureWisdom QuotesLife Lessons QuotesHuman ConditionYin And YangUnderstanding LifeAngel And DevilDevil WithinAngel WithinDevil And Angel Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Humans are strange things. They have sex with each other; but are too ashamed to say sorry to one another, they see what they have when they've lost what they have; but not while they have it, they are the most proud on the outside during the times they are the most insecure on the inside, and they would rather die manipulating others than be brave enough to be honest. They can't even look in the mirror properly. All they see are their shells in the mirror; nothing else.” HumansHuman NatureWisdom QuotesObservations On HumanityThe Pitfalls Of Humanity Author:C. JoyBell C.
“People will always believe what they want to believe, about you. This is due to the fact that people wish to create their own truths; anything but the truth that's real. My creed is simple: Let them! Their beliefs don't alter your truth. Moreover, your attempt at altering them won't do any good for you.” Inspirational QuotesAdviceHuman NatureWisdom QuotesAttitude Towards PeopleCreed In Life Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Your gender may not help to make me feel comfortable; but I will absolutely defend your right to live in a way that doesn't require you to make me feel comfortable. Your skin colour may not be my skin colour; but I will absolutely defend your right to live in your own skin just as much as I live in mine. Your religion or absence of any religion may not align with my own beliefs; but I will absolutely defend your right to believe in anything or nothing at all. Since I'm a human too, I will defend your birthright to be the kind of human that you are.” HumansFreedomLibertyAtheismInspirational LifeHuman RightsHumanismEqual Rights Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We live in a time when everyone must bear arms on behalf of something on the outside of them that moves on the inside of their hearts. We no longer live in an era where peace was equivalent to detachment. Peace thanks to detachment is just an unwillingness to commit to being alive. That era is over. Peace by means of invalidation is over. Peace through the validation of what is essential to others, is the only way through this now. I validate you, you validate me, we validate each other, we are attached to each other. Peace through the acknowledgement of what is human. This is the way forward. "Invalidation" is an act of tyranny that is carried out daily at the personal level, between friends, family, lovers, co-workers, etc. It is the easiest and most prevalent form of "little tyrannies" that are enacted upon, and are carried out every day. Invalidating another's experience, feeling, thought, action, by making it seem irrelevant or small, is cowardice, and at the root of it is a fear of living life beyond your own borders. We talk about national borders all the time, when in reality, it's the borders that we place between ourselves and the people close to us, that take profound effect in human lives, on the daily. There is even a spiritual movement in the New Age group that focuses so much on putting up borders, that these borders are simply passive aggressive behaviours designed to pamper a person in their own preconceived or misconceived bubbles. The borders are old and that era is over. Peace in this new era is not about sitting on top of a rock in alienation to gain a selfish version of peace. Peace, in our new era now, is about the realisation that peace for all is peace for one! We now bear arms for battles happening beyond our own little worlds because this is what it means to be the new human.” PeaceHumanismChange Your LifeChange The WorldThe New WorldPeace For AllThe New DawnThe New EraThe New Human Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Before coronapocalypse, people were so distracted by items presenting themselves throughout life; items that really do not matter. Noise for the mind. Ways to distract the heart. Escape goats, scapegoats (work, projects, moving targets, parties) for getting away from conditions of the soul and heart that must be fully faced and dealt with. Now there are no more distractions, noise evaporated. Everyone must face their truth now: their Demons and their Angels.” HumanismHuman ConditionPandemicHuman HeartPlagueHuman SoulDystopiaKnow ThyselfAngels And DemonsCoronapocalypse Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I like people when they're Charles Bukowski at 2 AM. When they're saying what they really think, when they're feeling what they really feel. When they're cursing out the world, combing the sky for galaxies, and questioning God's existence. I like people who look you in the eyes and either tell you to fuck off or to stay forever! I like people when they just are. Otherwise... I don't really care so much to have them around at all.” Inspirational QuotesLife QuotesLife And LivingHumanismPeople QuotesHumans HumanityMy Kind Of People Author:C. JoyBell C.
“When people are broken on the outside, society is taught to never be rude to them. When people are broken on the inside, society is taught to rub happiness in their faces and show them how perfect life should be. When someone has half of an arm, you are not supposed to go up to them and show them how great of an arm wrestler you are. But when someone has a broken mind or a broken soul, you're taught to go up to them and tell them to look for joy in everything. Society has a very long way to go in terms of what it means to heal this world's broken people.” HealingSocietyWisdom QuotesEmpathyMental HealthHumanismHypocrisyOur SocietyHumankindDouble StandardGuidance QuotesBroken PeopleTrue Empathy Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Walking under Dusk, Moonlit leaf shadows were cast on my skin from the trees above, every step I took was taking a step deeper into magic. Silent whispers of mystical mouthes pulling me in deeper. Then the lights from inside the house turned on. A few seconds later, the fence lights went on. Just like that, the leafy ghosts on my skin ran away and the faery voices ran home. It seems like the creations of man kill magic in so many ways— even the light bulb does this! Oh to be a race of people designing magical things, if someone could capture pieces of Moonlight and place it in a jar; or other things like that, then we could stop killing the magic and be filled with it instead. Or maybe we are already always filled with it. It's the bringing out that we have trouble with. Stop being a doorknob, darling! Be magical, instead!” Inspirational QuotesMagicWisdom QuotesHumanismHuman RaceMoonlightMagickBelieve In MagicMagickalBeing MagicCreating MagicSocial Sustainability Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The reason why the world is a difficult place to live in, is due to the fact that people are not interested in people. Nobody is truly interested in anybody; they are only interested in the parts that they think will be pleasurable and comfortable for them to get to know. People don't want to know what you're afraid of, what kind of dreams you have at night, what your eyes look like when you laugh and when you hurt... people want to receive perfect gifts and other people are supposed to be those perfect gifts! But then none of us are those perfect gifts. All of us are real on the inside but then people want what's not real... so how is the world supposed to work, that way? I want to know what's real in people, and in me. And it's hard to be this way, because nobody else is.” TruthInspirational QuotesWisdom QuotesHumanismTruth Of LifeThe WorldReal QuotesMaking The World A Better PlaceThe Truth About The WorldPeople Don T Love Other PeopleWhy Life Is Difficult Author:C. JoyBell C.
“No man was born in chains; it is their fellow man who has put them in chains, and at any given time, every single man and woman has the absolute right to break free from those chains of any nature and of any form! It is not God who has put you in any sort of bondage! It is your fellow man who puts you in bondage in the name of God!” Inspirational QuotesWisdom QuotesHumanismBreaking FreeInspirational FreedomRising Above ReligionBreaking Out Of Bondage Author:C. JoyBell C.
“It is the simple things that are in the ocean. People think that simple things are on the seashore, like seashells. But seashells are just illusions of the things that once used to live inside of them, that are back in the sea! They are dead things, and dead things are not simple things. Living things are simple things, things like love. People think that love isn't simple, but that's because they are on the seashore; but when you are a mermaid, when you have gills, when you need to be in the ocean; love is simple. It's about being beside someone and staying there. And then sharing your souls. What's natural to a mermaid, isn't natural to a person. But I want everyone to be a mermaid. And if they can't, at least they can know what a mermaid is like. We live with the things that are alive.” Inspirational LifeWisdom QuotesHumanismInspirational LoveLiving ThingsSimple LoveMermaid QuotesWhat Love Is LikeBeing A MermaidLove Is SimplePassion Of LivingWhat A Mermaid Is Like Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I think that one of the worst things you can do to a person, is cast them in a negative light and paint them in negative hues, by using the malicious thoughts that are in your mind. We all have some kind of tape recorder in the back of our minds, a film strip, and there are lots of negative thoughts embedded onto that filstrip, and our minds act like projectors; projecting all of those images onto the new canvas that stands in front of us! It is a dark and harmful art that one engages in, when one paints the new canvas in old colours! We have to let it go, we just have to let it go. A person isn't all the other things that have happened to you; a person is a beautiful canvas with a painting that's already there and you need to sit still and see clearly and look at that painting. Then you need to be very careful what colours you dip your paintbrush into before making any new marks on what stands in front of you. Don't make the mistake of harming others and yourself, by painting them in colours that are not their own.” Inspirational QuotesWisdom QuotesHumanismInspirational LivingGuidance QuotesWarningsGuidance For LifeBe Careful With PeopleInspirational HumanPaints And Colours Author:C. JoyBell C.
“All people want to belong to some sort of hierarchy. Allow me to explain. The rich want to be the richest; the poor want to be the smartest; those who are both rich and smart want to be the better persons; the better persons want to go to heaven; those who are in heaven will look down upon those who are in hell... there is always some kind of hierarchy desired by everyone; even by those who claim the opposite of this. So how do you find true divinity? Divinity is found in those who reach down low; because it is those who are above who must reach down low, while it is those who are below who must constantly reach for what is above! And this is divinity. What is divine, is what will have a curiosity in what is below. There is no fear of becoming "tainted"; because what is lesser can never really taint what is greater. it is what is greater than is able to transform what is lesser. The alchemist must first find the mud, pick it up, before she is able to transform it into diamond.” Wisdom QuotesHumanismHierarchyGuidance QuotesDivine NatureHierarchy Among PeopleAlchemistsSoul AlchemyHierarchical MindsetHereticismLesser And GreaterThe Nature Of The DivineWhat Is DivineWhat Is Divinity Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Trust in your story, it's powerful enough. Oftentimes, it is not the lack of power that is our struggle; but it is our unawareness of the power that we do have, which is our biggest hurdle to surmount.” Inspirational QuotesWisdom QuotesHumanismInspirational WordsTrust Your StoryTrust Your Power Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I am afraid of those who are too simple on the outside; for their vanities they wear upon their hearts. Better to meet a person who wears their vanities out in the open where you can see them! Than one who hides them in their hearts! For it is the stuff of the heart that is hidden; while the stuff on the outside is not. And we are all vain; the difference is where we put it! I would rather meet a person vain on the outside; while possessing the simplest of hearts.” Wisdom QuotesHumanismVanityGuidance QuotesThe Truth About Being HumanVanitiesHaving A Simple HeartHaving A Vain HeartHidden Things Of The HeartReal VanitySimple HeartsThe True Meaning Of Vanity Author:C. JoyBell C.
“You can carry around with you a basket full of magical apples; but when people do not recognize magic, they will ask you to go and pick earthly apples and then they will laugh at you when you are unable to pick the apples of the earth; but what they don't know is that you were given hands that are made to pick the magical apples from the ancient trees and what an opportunity they have missed in not asking you for the magic ones! But this is the downfall of mankind, in that they cannot recognize magic even when it is right under their noses! Blessed are the few who can, and who ask for it. Ask me for magic, because that is what I am capable of giving.” Inspirational QuotesMagicWisdom QuotesHumanismTruth QuotesBelieve In MagicThe Courage To Believe In MagicLearning How To See Magic Author:C. JoyBell C.
“J'ai appris, que la personne que je dois demander le plus pardon est : moi-même. Il faut s'aimer. Il faut se pardonner, chaque jour, chaque fois que vous vous souvenez d'une faiblesse, d'une faille, vous devez vous dire « C'est très bien ». Vous devez vous pardonner tant de choses, jusqu'à ce que vous ne voyez même plus ces choses. Parce que c'est cela l'amour” Self LoveHumanismLoving YourselfForgiving YourselfHow To Love Yourself Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The beauty in correcting our own mistakes; rather than attempting to correct the mistakes in others, is that working upon our own flaws improves us. But working upon the flaws of others not only leaves us unimproved; it actually leaves us being less than we were prior to making those assessments. I believe that the moral of this natural occurrence, is that we are all born to find and fix our own shortcomings; rather than find and fix the shortcomings in others. And if all people were to do this, then we would be a race of creatures looking inward, in order to bring out something better. Now think of what a beautiful race that would be.” Inspirational QuotesHumanityWisdom QuotesSelf ImprovementInspirational AttitudeHumanismSelf ReflectionInspirational Living Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Yes, the human race is a small species in an infinite universe filled with many other planets and many other things, but though small; this race is bearer of very great and big things: Destiny, Virtue, Hope, Love... and that's what makes this species different. That's what makes this species very shiny and very visible and very important, in a whole, whole, big, big, vast, expanding universe!” Inspirational QuotesHumanityHumanismHuman RaceThe UniverseYou Are ImportantYou Are DifferentThe Human SpeciesThe Importance Of The Human RaceYou Are Shiny Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Some people come and go and are forgotten. But there are other people who share a part in our destinies. They come, they go, but they are never forgotten. They come, they go, but even after they go... they're still here. They never really went anywhere.” HumanityInspirational LoveThe Human ExperienceComing And GoingInspirational RelationshipsUnforgottenThe Unforgotten Ones Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I am a siren, and for my adoration of mankind, have been caught in fishing nets one time too many. And in those fishing nets I have learned too many unfavorable things about human intentions and the lack of trust and goodwill; I'm not going to allow myself to be caught, anymore. Sirens do well at singing the sirens' song and dragging vile people to their deaths, and for good reason!” HumanityMankindSirensMermaidsSirens SongHuman Intentions Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Doesn't anybody get tired of it all? Of having the same lives as everybody else, doing the same things as everybody else, following the same rules as everybody else... people are identical to the groups they identify with and they stay in these groups 'til they die and they never really discover who they really are or who they actually can be. It's so boring, so tiring. So many imaginary ceilings, imaginary walls, imaginary limits, imaginary happiness.” HumanityInspirational LifeWisdom QuotesPeople RelationsHumanity AdvicePeople NatureHumanity And RealityObservations On LifeObservations On Humanity Author:C. JoyBell C.
“People create sins out of nothing and in doing so have enslaved their fellow man! Man is not bound by sin but man is bound by the idea that almost everything he is doing is a sin!” HumanitySinDogmaSin Created By ManThe Error Of SinThe State Of Humanity Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Many times, you are the single most significant and glorious thing that has ever happened in the lives of some people; they sit around and talk about you over and over again throughout the years while you are out there living your life, every step that you take and every kiss that you make having absolutely nothing to do with them, at all!” LifeLife And LivingInspirational AttitudeBackstabbingBackbitingThe Nature Of People Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Yes, you may have your cake and eat it too. I will only take the rest of the world along with all the other cakes in it, thank you!” Inspirational LifeLife And LivingInspirational AttitudeA Winning Attitude Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Men have two greatest fears: the first fear is the fear of being needed, and the second fear is the fear of not being needed.” MenWisdomFearWisdom QuotesLife And LivingParadoxFearsMen S FearsThe ManThe Nature Of ManThe Fears Of Man Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Many men are fascinated by the consciously evolving female who makes them feel free inside. But they're too unsure of their own standing to actually stay with such women. They want a sheepish, sort-of-dumb woman at home for them, then they imagine themselves being swept off their feet by a goddess somewhere outside. These are the kinds of men that aren't worth being with. You want to have a man who can sail a ship just as well as you can, a man who puts both his feet in the same boat at the same time, someone whose manhood is never defined by female docility.” Inspirational AttitudeMasculinityWomens InspirationalWomens EmpowermentCheating In RelationshipsStrong Women QuotesWeak MenPatriarchy QuotesInpirational LifeMen S Insecurities Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I have seen the most beautiful families blossom from the most unlikely relational circumstances. I've also seen the most ideal circumstances yield empty families that just don't work no matter how hard they try. Nobody can try and control this. The seeds of love and the seeds of family will fall wherever they want to fall and will take root wherever they may take root. There's no telling, there's no predicting what may be best. But that's the absolute beauty of it. Let people come together and love as they wish, there are no rules to this.” Relationship QuotesInspirational AttitudeInspirational LoveInspirational Quotes About LifeLove QuotationsFamily RelationshipsFamily QuotesRelationships Love Author:C. JoyBell C.
“If you ever see me with a man, it's because waking up in the morning with that person makes me feel more alive than waking up in the morning on my own. If I feel more free and more alive on my own, you're not going to see me with a man. I have no fear of loneliness but I have a fear of having to wake up beside anyone who makes me feel less sparkly, less able to fly. I have a fear of not really drinking in life deeply; of merely sipping it politely.” Life PhilosophyLife And LivingInspirational AttitudeLife Quotes And SayingsMentalityLife And LoveRelationships QuotesWomens InspirationalWomens QuotesLove Of Life Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Uplift people, celebrate people, help people shine. Don't stop to think about how you look in comparison; just celebrate people's shiny moments.” Inspirational LifeInspirational AttitudePhilosophy Of LifePeople QuotesLiving Life To The FullestMindful LivingHow To Live LifePeople Inspire PeopleCelebrate People Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Much is said about love and heartbreak but nobody ever talks about falling out of love. Nobody has penned words on how glorious an experience it can be. Nobody talks about how it can feel like wings of healing and winds of enrapturement; how it can feel like snowflakes against your cheeks when you've been waiting and waiting for the blissful calm of winter. No one recognizes the pristine beauty of falling out of love, what a breathtaking process and journey it can be. We talk about falling into love like it's something so good we should wake up every morning wanting it. But nobody talks about the enrapturement, the ascension, of rising up and out of it!” LoveLove QuotesLoversRelationship QuotesInspirational AttitudeBreakupInspirational LivingBreakupsBreakup QuotesLovers Quotes Author:C. JoyBell C.
“If someone else makes my partner a better person, if someone else makes my partner happier than I can, if someone else breathes life into my partner in a way I cannot; then my partner should be with that person, not with me. It seems like people fail to grasp that wanting to be with someone is totally different from needing someone to belong to you. Wanting to be with someone is totally different from needing to keep someone.” LoveRelationship QuotesInspirational AttitudeControlInspirational LovePartnershipInspirational LivingPurposeful Life QuotesLiving With A PurposeInspirational Lives Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The world would be so different if we celebrated the rising up and out of love, as much as we celebrate the falling into it. Imagine learning of someone's breakup and rejoicing for her because you know that now she is going through the enlightening process of healing, self-love, and illumination. If our perspective collectively changes, we would be able to eliminate a significant portion of human suffering. When it does happen, because I'm not saying it should always happen but I'm saying that it does happen; we need to view the falling-out-of-love (or as I like to call it, the rising up and out of love), as a part of the full process of love, one that also effectively ushers in growth, joy, and fulfilment.” LoveLove QuotesWisdom QuotesInspirational AttitudeLove Quotes And SayingsInspirational LivingBreakupsBreaking Up Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The darkness occupying the night is not going to remove itself from the nighttime. So what benefits your existence, as a candle, if you are a light that moves itself out of the darkness? Is it not the destiny of the candle to be unafraid of the night?” Inspirational LifeInspirational AttitudeLight QuotesDarkness QuotesCandlelightCandle QuotesLight Up The WorldCandle In The DarknessLight Up The Night Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I am not interested in your religious beliefs; I am interested to see the ways you add value to society, to the spaces around you. I don't want to hear about your principles; I want to hear about the ways your neighbourhood is a little better thanks to you. Don't tell me about the values you hold dear in your mind; tell me about how you've added value to the events of life you've found yourself in. Tell me about the people who are thankful for your existence, then tell me why they feel that way.” Inspirational LifeLife And LivingInspirational AttitudeInspirational LivingPurposeful LivingOutlook In LifeOutlook And Attitude Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Please, my love, jump out of the river when you catch it flowing in directions you don't wish to be in.” Inspirational LifeWisdom QuotesLife And LivingInspirational AttitudeLiving In The PresentLive Life So WellChange Course Author:C. JoyBell C.
“The story of Cinderella is a metaphor for our life experience. Just like Cinderella, some of us will often find ourselves as the only value-giver, surrounded by value-takers. Our goal is to create value, to become sculptors of value; while their goal is to focus on their own value and try to take by all means, to add more to it. When you take value, that's because you're not creating it in the spaces you are in and that surround you. You're not a valuable experience in other people's lives. You're the ugly stepsisters. But unlike Cinderella, we need to be more like Belle. We need to know our own worth while our own worth is happening.” Inspirational QuotesInspirational LifeSelf LoveWisdom QuotesSelf AwarenessInspirational AttitudeDisney PrincessValue CreatorCreator Of ValueValue Giver Author:C. JoyBell C.
“I hold space for people who sin differently from me. I'm not, like, "My sins are better than yours", or, "My sins are more acceptable than your sins." It's ridiculous how we favour our own sins while we all dance with different demons. We are afraid of another's demons when we ourselves have our own. So, I hold space in me for those who sin differently from me, because it is those imperfections in their own stories which have painted them the colours that are their own. The same way I have been painted in my colours, they have been painted in theirs.” SinWisdom QuotesInspirational AttitudeSinsAcceptance Of OneselfAcceptance Of OthersKindness CompassionNo Judgement Author:C. JoyBell C.
“If you are free, you're going to scare them. In the same way light scares bats or how a chained animal grown so accustomed to its cage, would refuse an opened fence. That's how you'll scare them: with an open mind, a brave voice, the stare of a bear! You'll scare them every time you belly-laugh and every time you look a man eye-to-eye as an equal. You'll scare them when they see your thighs and when you choose your own religion. You'll scare them. Because it's birds who fly free that terrify the ones in cages.” FreedomLibertyInspirational LifeLife And LivingInspirational AttitudeFreeWomens EmpowermentBreak FreeBe FreeFreed Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Humans make boxes, put themselves into those boxes, then pull other people in along with them. Everything I do and everything that I am, are the results of climbing out of their boxes and then not allowing myself to be pulled into new ones. Because once you are freed from one, there is always another, and yet another, box that some human will try to pull you into. Especially in the society which I live: a giant box filled with a hundred million tiny boxes, all trying to trap you inside them. And some will tell you that God is in their box with them! Bloody hell of a lie. God cannot be found inside of their cubicles.” FreedomLibertyInspirational LifeInspirational AttitudeLive FreeBreaking FreeBreak FreeBe Free Author:C. JoyBell C.
“Kindness is not a concept we throw around ourselves to decorate ourselves with, like robes we wear and then take off when we come home. But kindness is a presence, a phantom in our lives, a ghost, that we must choose to invite into our very present moments.” Inspirational LifeInspirational AttitudeKindness QuotesKindness MattersGuidance In LifeGuidance For Life Author:C. JoyBell C.
“We're lying to our fragile selves all the time. We feel all shocked and horrified when we learn things about people, as if we don't already know that we're only dealing with the surface of a person at all times. So, we do know that we're expecting an unrealistic "best part" from everyone else at the surface level, then we act all shocked when we have glimpses beyond those façades. As if we 're not exactly like that as well. This is why I don't expect the best out of anyone, because I want to still be there after I've seen all parts of them, I want people to feel like I'm the vast sky: that I have space in me they may fly around in. Skies don't close down the moment rainclouds form or the moment a bird loses its feather.” Wisdom QuotesInspirational AttitudeAcceptance Of OthersAcceptance Of Oneself And OthersJudgemental QuotesJudgementality Author:C. JoyBell C.