“There was something stubborn in me that didn't want to lose weight to attract a man. If the right man came along, he'd be able to see my virtues magically. Once he kissed me, the frog would turn into a prince. I had become a trick question, a heavy disguise, but behind the disobliging exterior was the welcoming child I would always be. Of course, what I'd forgotten was that he was not Parsifal and I was not the Grail; the medievalism of my imagination was not sufficiently up-to-date to recognize that the lover was a shopper and I a product.” IfsMenWantChildrenAbleTurnsCoursesLosesImaginationBehindsVirtueProductsLoversWeightForgottenHeavyTricksWelcomeDisguiseStubbornMy ImaginationFrogsExteriorLose WeightUp To DateRight ManShoppers Author:Edmund White
“Of course the success of A Boy's Own Story took me utterly off guard.” StoriesSuccessCoursesBoys Author:Edmund White
“I am, I must confess, suspicious of those who denounce others for having too much sex. At what point does a healthy amount become too much? There are, of course, those who suffer because their desire for sex has become compulsive; in their case the drive (loneliness, guilt) is at fault, not the activity as such. When morality is discussed I invariably discover, halfway into the conversation, that what is meant are not the great ethical questions but the rather dreary business of sexual habit, which to my mind is an aesthetic rather than an ethical issue.” MindDoeDesireSufferingCoursesSexCasesIssuesToo MuchLonelinessAmountHabitMoralityHealthyActivityConversationGuiltFaultsEthicalAestheticHalfwaySuspiciousDrearyEthical IssuesEthical Questions Author:Edmund White
