“But if you need help," says Lucy, "then you should tell us. It's what we're here for. It's actually a very important part of friendship. Studies have shown that true lasting friendships that are built on the foundation of feeling comfortable to ask one another for help, last longer than those friendships you feel you have to transact in. You know? I'll do this for her, but only so she might do that for me. It's true. I read it in a book.” FriendshipTrustBehavioral PsychologyBehavioral Science Book:The Key to My Heart Source: The Key to My Heart
“Because I know, deep down, I am made of strong stuff. Rebuilt with it, at least, the way we all are, over the years, with age and experience, skin thickening, heart softening, patched up double in the places prone to breakage. A sum of all the things that have hurt us, scared up, sheltered and delighted us.” StrengthResilience Book:Dear Emmie Blue Source: Dear Emmie Blue
“What is it about someone asking if you're okay? Even if you think you're holding it together, all it takes is someone asking is if you're alright to completely melt away your resolve and bring that lump bobbing straight into your throat.” SadnessDepressionCoping Book:Dear Emmie Blue Source: Dear Emmie Blue
“But here, I can help myself. Here, I am looked after. And maybe that is why it feels more like home than anywhere else has ever felt. Maybe home isn't a place. It's a feeling. Of being looked after and understood. Of being loved.” PeopleLoveHome Book:Dear Emmie Blue Source: Dear Emmie Blue
“Change. Everything is changing. Except for me.” FearChangeRelatableEverythingMeForExceptWhat I Feel Book:Dear Emmie Blue Source: Dear Emmie Blue
“And I don't have a corner sofa or a sweater-wearing husband. But I am here. The Noelle of right now, is right here.” HappinessRomanceDestinyFateAcceptanceContentmentEight Perfect Hours Book:Eight Perfect Hours Source: Eight Perfect Hours
“Nobody says it, of course, it’s all ‘I’m so excited; I’m so happy for you!’ But deep down, every friend is thinking ‘Shit. Everything’s changing. I’m going to lose my mate to this person who could absolutely be a total and utter bastard. And I’ve got to smile throughout it while I let them go into the arms of a potential monster. And what does that mean for us?’ Poke writing a speech, I would actually like to spend my time having an existential crisis in peace.” LifeSpeechLosingRelatableBest FriendChangingExistential Crisis Book:Dear Emmie Blue Source: Dear Emmie Blue
“I spoke to this woman in the supermaket," Charlie barges in again, "and I said I was tired and finding it hard, and she said, 'Ah, you wouldn't change it thoug, would you?' and I had to of course say no. But I wanted to say yes. I wanted to say, 'Actually, Brenda, I would.' I want to go back sometimes. And I do, Noelle. I don't want to be Charlie of then." Charlie bursts into sobs.” RomanceMotherhoodPostpartumKarenEight Perfect HoursPost Partum Depression Book:Eight Perfect Hours Source: Eight Perfect Hours
“Do you know why I like storms? They're a little reminder that we're not at all in charge, but Mother Nature is. And while the world might not look exactly how we'd prefer it to, it is enough, if we just stop and look. The whole sky lit up. The smell of the rain. Safe inside. What more could you need?” Storms Of Life QuotesStorms Quotes Book:Dear Emmie Blue Source: Dear Emmie Blue