“Being in a state of denial is a universally human response to situations which threaten to overwhelm. People who were abused as children sometimes carry their denial like precious cargo without a port of destination. It enabled us to survive our childhood experiences, and often we still live in survival mode decades beyond the actual abuse. We protect ourselves to excess because we learned abruptly and painfully that no one else would.” SecretPsychologySurvivalVictimTraumaProtectionDefenseDenialSurvivorChild AbuseRepressionSelf ProtectionAbuse SurvivorDefense MechanismTraumatic StressTraumatic MemoriesSecret History Book:Becoming One: A Story of Triumph Over Dissociative Identity Disorder Source: Becoming One: A Story of Triumph Over Dissociative Identity Disorder
“July 15, 1991 Nita: My mother was a paragon of our neighborhood, People always come up to us with hugs, saying "You have the most wonderful mother." l'd think. “Don't you see what's going on in this house?” To this day, if somehow even in jest raises their hand to me, I will do this (raises hands to protect face and cowers) I cringe. Then they look at me like, what's your probem? You don't get that from a great childhood.” TraumaPtsdTraumatizedPost Traumatic Stress DisorderPosttraumatic Stress DisorderDefensiveTraumatic StressOverreactionTrauma SurvivorHypervigilanceJumpyOverreact Book:Becoming One: A Story of Triumph Over Dissociative Identity Disorder Source: Becoming One: A Story of Triumph Over Dissociative Identity Disorder