“Nita: I think I overdid the vulnerability stuff in this last letter. and that’s why I’m having an anxiety attack. Howard: With the vulnerability comes the possibility that you’ll be betrayed. Now that you’ve laid yourself wide open, I am the agent of this betrayal? It’s not my style. Nita: I’ve thought it wasn't other people’s style, too.” FearDoubtBetrayalVulnerableVulnerabilityDistrustDissociative Identity DisorderMistrustPsychotherapyAbusive RelationshipsTrust IssuesRelationship ProblemsTherapy SessionVulnerability Attachment Book:Becoming One: A Story of Triumph Over Dissociative Identity Disorder Source: Becoming One: A Story of Triumph Over Dissociative Identity Disorder
“One must consider that small children are virtually incapable of making much impact on their world. No matter what path taken as a child, survivors grow up believing they should have done something differently. Perhaps there is no greater form of survivor guilt than “I didn't try to stop it." Or “I should have told." The legacy of a helpless, vulnerable, out-of-control, and humiliated child creates an adult who is generally tentative, insecure, and quite angry. The anger is not often expressed, however, as it is not safe to be angry with violent people. Confrontation and conflict are difficult for many survivors.” ConflictAngryGuiltBoundariesVulnerableInsecureConfrontationSurvivorsHumiliatedVictim BlamingRelationship ProblemsChild Abuse SurvivorsSelf BlameHelpedSurvivor GuiltBoundary IssuesChild Abuse EffectsAbuse History Author:Sarah E. Olson