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“To understand The signs that stars compose, we need depend Only on stars that are entirely there And the apparent space between them. There Never need be lines between them, puzzling Our sense of what is what.”

Quote by John Hollander

Book:Selected poems
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Selected poems

This book compiles a selection of poems that showcase the depth and diversity of the author's poetic voice, exploring a range of subjects and employing different literary techniques. more

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John Hollander
John Hollander

John Hollander was an American poet known for his unique style and innovative approach to poetry forms. His works blended classical and modern elements, exploring themes of love, nature, and the human condition. more

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