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“On the way out, I hug Mum, holding her close. 'Thank you,' I whisper. 'For dinner - and for everything.' Mum smiles and strokes my cheek. 'There's nothing to thank me for.”

Quote by Liz Kessler

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Read Me Like a Book

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Liz Kessler
Liz Kessler

Liz Kessler is a British author born in 1966. She is known for her works in children's literature, particularly for her historical and fantasy novels. Kessler's books have won the hearts of readers and have been awarded multiple literary prizes. more

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